F*CK BEING CALM

Why Nothing Is Landing — and What Override Is Costing You

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They promised calm.
They handed you self-surveillance.

Optimise.
Regulate.
Stay on top of yourself.

And when nothing landed —
you assumed it was you.

If your life functions but nothing sinks in,
this isn’t here to fix you.

It’s here to expose the story you were sold.

This isn’t a guide.

It’s an interruption.

You’re not burnt out.

You’re functioning.
Impressive.
Listening for the front door while you’re in the shower.

And still knackered.

That’s not weakness.
That’s adaptation.

Override feels responsible.
But override kills capacity.

And when capacity narrows —
nothing lands.

This isn’t a guide.
It’s an interruption.

If your life works but nothing sinks in,
read this.

Stop performing fine.

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